Tag: life

• I’m Addicted to Porn

  December 29, 2025

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  So, I was searching for books on dopamine and stumbled across Dopamine Nation by Dr Anna Lembke. Admittedly the cover graphics got me and of course all the usual Amazon praise: “Instant New York Times and Los Angeles Times bestseller…”. So I figured what the heck, it’s got colorful cover…

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  + addiction, dopamine, gay, health, life, mental-health, porn, porn addiction, Self-Therapy, single, social-media, writing

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• Boredom…

  September 21, 2025

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  The irony is not lost on me…while killing my boredom one afternoon watching video after video on YouTube, the algorithms shuffled a video exclaiming “You Need to Be Bored. Here’s Why” into my feed. So I bit, and clicked on the video to give it a watch. After all, it…

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  + Self Discovery

  + Arthur C. Brooks, Blogging, Boredom, Get Off the Phone, health, life, Live Life, mental health, mental-health, Put Down Your Phone, Self-Therapy, social-media, writing

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• The Journey To Fit

  September 1, 2025

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  It’s been a few weeks since I’ve posted-my apologies. Work and life through some curve balls and I’ve resorted to a sort of retreat. But why the topic of this post? The journey to Fit? I’ve been struggling for some time to get my weight under control and get back…

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  + FatToFit

  + Blogging, diet, Fat2Fit, Fit2Fat2Fit, fitness, gay, health, life, nutrition, single, weight-loss

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• Dear Facebook, Thank You

  July 20, 2025

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  In the course of normal breakup (over)reactions, I had blocked my ex on social media even though we remained “friends” (I put that in quotes because I didn’t realize at the time friendship had an expiration date). We were still living together and civil. It seemed as though the breakup…

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  + Sometimes It Hurts

  + dating, gay, John Kim, life, love, mental-health, relationships, Self-Therapy, single, social-media

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• That Time I Was Outed By A Parking Pass

  June 29, 2025

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  For those of you who have been to a city in the Northeast, in particular New England, you undoubtedly notice that you have a massive amount of people crammed into not a lot of space. This is particularly true of Boston and the cities that surround it. Parking is always…

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  + Self Discovery

  + coming out, family, gay, grief, LGBT, life, love, writing

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• The Scroll Hole

  June 18, 2025

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  The majority of mortals, Paulinus, complain bitterly of the spitefulness of Nature, because we are born for a brief span of life, because even this space that has been granted to us rushes by so speedily and so swiftly that all save a very few find life at an end…

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